10 things every man wants in bed

Most guys are a little more predictable in their bedroom proclivities. They just want a sex life that’s a little spicy, a little sweet, and still occa

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Most guys are a little more predictable in their bedroom proclivities. They just want a sex life that’s a little spicy, a little sweet, and still occasionally surprising. To make the bedroom a sexual sanctuary, here are the things men desire most.

To see you take the initiative
Men are happy to make the first move, and if you don’t, they will. But it’s so much more rewarding when they know how eager you are to want them.

Sexy lingerie
Make an effort to wear them as it turns men on. Don’t mind that they barely seem to notice as they rip it off and toss it on the floor. They do.

Foreplay
Don’t be fooled by guys you see in movies who are always horny and ready to screw like right now. Truth is, men love the slow build as much as they love the crescendo. And good sex provides both.

Spontaneity
It’s impossible for a couple not to fall into some kind of rut, even if it’s a shallow one. So don’t ever be afraid to change things up. Pre-work sex, sex without penetration, and sex on the living room coffee table all do the trick. Just be sure to wipe it down before you put the magazines back.

Dirty talk
Or at the very least, some encouraging moans to let them know they are on the right track.

They like to hear their name
Nothing keeps them in the moment like the sound of their own name. Use that to your advantage.

Safety
Some men don’t mind if you whip out a condom when they have run out. It shows that are willing to take joint responsibility for both your safety.

A game-for-anything attitude
Men like it when women are open to play out a fantasy or try a new position.

A sense of humor
When things go wrong, it can either be hilarious, or devastating. The ability to laugh together makes the difference.

To make you orgasm
It’s not all about them as they are willing to please you.